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Japanese Restaurant Phrases: How to Order Food & Pay

Navigate Japanese restaurants confidently with essential ordering phrases and dining etiquette. Learn how to ask for recommendations, order set meals, request drinks, and pay the bill like a local. Complete guide to restaurant vocabulary, polite expressions, and cultural dining customs in Japan.

Understanding Japanese Restaurant Culture and Dining Customs

You're dining at a Japanese restaurant and need to communicate with staff to order food, ask about menu items, and complete your meal experience

Essential Japanese Restaurant Phrases for Ordering and Dining

01
いらっしゃいませ。何名なんめいさまですか?

Irasshaimase. Nanmei-sama desu ka?

"Welcome! How many people are in your party?"

Grammar: Formal restaurant greeting with respectful people counter 'nanmei-sama'
02
一人ひとりです。

Hitori desu.

"One person, please."

Grammar: Simple people counter response using 'hitori' for one person
03
少々しょうしょうちください。

Shōshō omachi kudasai.

"Please wait a moment."

Grammar: Polite request for patience using formal 'shōshō' (a little while)
04
こちらへどうぞ。

Kochira e dōzo.

"This way, please."

Grammar: Direction guidance using 'kochira e' (this way) + invitation 'dōzo'
05
注文ちゅうもんはおまりですか?

Gochūmon wa okimari desu ka?

"Are you ready to order?"

Grammar: Formal service inquiry using respectful 'go-' prefix and polite 'okimari'
06
おすすめはなんですか?

Osusume wa nan desu ka?

"What do you recommend?"

Grammar: Recommendation inquiry using topic marker 'wa' + question word 'nan'
07
はい、てんぷら定食ていしょくをおねがいします。

Hai, tenpura teishoku o onegaishimasu.

"Yes, I'd like the tempura set meal."

Grammar: Polite ordering pattern using object marker 'o' + 'onegaishimasu'
08
かしこまりました。おものはいかがですか?

Kashikomarimashita. Onomimono wa ikaga desu ka?

"Certainly. Would you like something to drink?"

Grammar: Formal acknowledgment + polite suggestion using 'ikaga desu ka'
09
ビールをおねがいします。

Bīru o onegaishimasu.

"I'd like a beer, please."

Grammar: Simple beverage order using standard polite request pattern
10
会計かいけいをおねがいします。

O-kaikei o onegaishimasu.

"Could I have the bill, please?"

Grammar: Bill request using polite 'o-' prefix + standard request pattern
11
ごちそうさまでした。

Gochisōsama deshita.

"Thank you for the meal, it was delicious."

Grammar: Essential post-meal gratitude expression showing cultural appreciation

Japanese Restaurant Etiquette and Dining Culture Guide

Japanese restaurant service follows strict protocols of politeness and efficiency. Staff use highly formal language (keigo) and expect customers to respond appropriately. Understanding these language levels shows respect and enhances your dining experience.

The phrase 'Irasshaimase' is a formal welcome that doesn't require a response from customers. Staff will often call this out when you enter, and simply nodding or saying 'konnichiwa' is sufficient acknowledgment.

Set meals (teishoku) are popular in Japan and provide balanced nutrition with rice, miso soup, pickles, and a main dish. They're economical, filling, and perfect for trying authentic Japanese home-style cooking.

Asking for recommendations (osusume) is not only acceptable but appreciated by restaurant staff. They take pride in their specialties and enjoy helping customers discover the best dishes.

The closing phrase 'Gochisōsama deshita' expresses gratitude for the meal and the effort put into preparing it. It's considered essential etiquette and shows cultural understanding and appreciation.

Key Japanese Grammar Patterns for Restaurant Communication

[food/drink]をおねがいします
polite

Polite ordering pattern using 'o onegaishimasu' - the standard way to request items

Essential phrase for ordering any food or drink item in restaurants

おすすめはなんですか?
polite

Recommendation inquiry pattern asking 'What do you recommend?'

Perfect for getting local recommendations and trying popular dishes

注文ちゅうもんはおまりですか?
polite

Service staff pattern asking if you're ready to order using formal keigo

What waiters typically ask when approaching your table

ものはいかがですか?
polite

Beverage offer pattern using polite suggestion form 'ikaga desu ka'

Standard way staff offer drinks after taking food orders

かしこまりました
polite

Formal acknowledgment meaning 'Certainly/Understood' used by service staff

Professional response staff give when taking your order

Complete Japanese Restaurant and Food Vocabulary

JapaneseRomajiEnglishCategory
いらっしゃいませirasshaimasewelcome (formal greeting)Service
店員てんいんten'instore clerk/waiterService
ウェイターweitāwaiterService
ウェイトレスweitoresuwaitressService
注文ちゅうもんchūmonorderOrdering
メニューmenyūmenuOrdering
おすすめosusumerecommendationOrdering
今日きょう特別とくべつkyō no tokubetsutoday's specialOrdering
定食ていしょくteishokuset mealOrdering
主菜しゅさいshusaimain dishFood Types
前菜ぜんさいzensaiappetizerFood Types
デザートdezātodessertFood Types
てんぷらtenpuratempuraFood Types
寿司すしsushisushiFood Types
刺身さしみsashimisashimiFood Types
ざかなyakizakanagrilled fishFood Types
唐揚からあkaraagefried chickenFood Types
ものnomimonobeverage/drinkBeverages
ビールbīrubeerBeverages
日本酒にほんしゅnihonshusake (Japanese rice wine)Beverages
焼酎しょうちゅうshōchūshochu (distilled spirit)Beverages
緑茶りょくちゃryokuchāgreen teaBeverages
みずmizuwaterBeverages
ソフトドリンクsofuto dorinkusoft drinkBeverages
会計かいけいkaikeibill/paymentPayment
領収書りょうしゅうしょryōshūshoreceiptPayment
現金げんきんgenkincashPayment
カードkādocardPayment
別々べつべつbetsubetsuseparatelyPayment
せきsekiseatSeating
個室こしつkoshitsuprivate roomSeating
禁煙きんえんkin'ennon-smokingSeating
喫煙きつえんkitsuensmokingSeating
一名いちめいichimeione person (formal)Numbers
二名にめいnimeitwo people (formal)Numbers
何名なんめいnanmeihow many people (formal)Numbers
一人ひとりhitorione personNumbers
二人ふたりfutaritwo peopleNumbers
ごちそうさまでしたgochisōsama deshitathank you for the mealExpressions
いただきますitadakimasusaid before eatingExpressions
少々しょうしょうちくださいshōshō omachi kudasaiplease wait a momentExpressions
かしこまりましたkashikomarimashitacertainly/understoodExpressions
ベジタリアンbejitarianvegetarianDietary
アレルギーarerugīallergyDietary
からkaraispicyDietary
あまamaisweetDietary

Practical Tips for Confident Japanese Restaurant Dining

Cultural

Set Meals (Teishoku) Are Perfect for Beginners

Teishoku set meals provide a complete, balanced Japanese dining experience with rice, miso soup, pickles, and a main dish. They're economical, authentic, and eliminate guesswork about what to order.

Tip

Don't Tip - It's Not Expected

Tipping is not customary in Japan and can actually cause confusion or embarrassment. Excellent service is standard and included in the price. Simply pay the exact amount shown on the bill.

Watch Out

Avoid Pointing at Menu Items

Instead of pointing, use phrases like 'kore o onegaishimasu' (this one, please) while indicating the item politely. Direct pointing can seem rude in Japanese culture.

Example:Better: これをお願いします (kore o onegaishimasu) while gently indicating the menu item
Cultural

Water Is Usually Free and Automatic

Most Japanese restaurants automatically provide free water (sometimes tea) when you sit down. You don't need to request it, and refills are typically offered without asking.

Tip

Call Staff with 'Sumimasen'

To get a waiter's attention, say 'sumimasen' (excuse me) politely. Many restaurants also have call buttons at tables, which is perfectly normal to use.

Watch Out

Don't Say 'Arigato' to 'Irasshaimase'

The formal greeting 'Irasshaimase' doesn't require a response. A simple nod or 'konnichiwa' is sufficient. Saying 'arigato gozaimasu' can sound awkward.

Example:Irasshaimase! → [nod] or こんにちは (konnichiwa)

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