Four Jobs, Sorted by Form
ものだ is doing several unrelated things, and the verb form tells you which.
1. A general truth. Dictionary form.
- 時間は早く過ぎるものだ。(Time passes quickly — that's how it is.)
2. Nostalgia. た form, about the repeated past.
- 子供の頃よく遊んだものだ。(We used to play a lot as children.)
3. Mild obligation. Dictionary form, about what people ought to do.
- 年上は敬うものだ。(One should respect one's elders.)
4. Exclamation. Often with よく or なんて.
- よく覚えていたものだ。(How well you remembered!)
Telling 1 From 3
Both use the dictionary form, and the difference is whether the sentence describes the world or prescribes behaviour. If you can insert "as a rule, people ought to", it is sense 3.
ものではない — The Negative
The negative is only the obligation sense — a prohibition on general grounds:
- そんなことを言うものではない。(That's not the sort of thing one says.)
Not もの as an Excuse
Sentence-final もん / もの is a different thing entirely — a childish or intimate excuse: だって知らなかったもん。(But I didn't know!)
